I can't even enjoy a latte from a coffee shop any more

[OmegaKV]

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[RogerDodger]

Who cares what other people think? Just don't tip. I always hit the "no tip" option. It's no big deal.

[OmegaKV]

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[R.C. Christian]

OmegaKV wrote

You go to coffeeshops because you want to enjoy it, and I can't enjoy it if they think I am a cheap asshole for not tipping.

That's a sign of what they call low attitude strength. ( http://psychology.iresearchnet.com/social-psychology/attitudes/attitude-strength/ )

It's all you; you are too attached to social norms and what people think of you. You limit yourself.