fschmidt wrote
One can talk to women about things of substance, what one has to avoid is abstractions which women don't understand.
Except women on the so-called Autism spectrum (Asperger's). They are the kind of women the OP should look for and "feel at home" with as a reward. While most of them do what's called "masking" or "camouflaging", one can spot them by their behavioral patterns, personality and even physical traits.
https://www.academia.edu/52239722/ASD_in_Females